Be An Adult Week Outcome

Okay, Be An Adult Week has come and gone and I think it went very well. There are always items still left on the to-do list but the fact that I crossed off several that were months or more overdue, it feels worth it.

This week I:

  • Cleaned out our car
  • Did some extra laundry like blankets from around the house and coats, etc
  • Took down Halloween decorations
  • Put up Thanksgiving decorations
  • Scrubbed/sprayed down some items to protect from mildew
  • Sorted boys clothes to items that just fit now and are seasonally appropriate
  • Scraped wax from candles off tabletop/counters where we have lit candles recently
  • Emptied our old expired fire extinguishers (that was fun!)
  • Bought new fire extinguishers
  • Hand sewed some items back together
  • Got the car’s oil changed
  • Scheduled dentist and other medical appointments
  • Printed and mailed some recent photos to the grandmothers
  • AND this is a BIG one…finally sent my wedding dress in for cleaning THREE YEARS later. Goodness, I am good at procrastinating.

And along with procrastinating no more…since we started our diet/fitness programs we have lost over 85 pounds total that we procrastinated on losing too long already.

We're even smaller than we were on our wedding day!

We’re even smaller than we were on our wedding day!


Day 31: We’ve Made It!

I’d love to tell you that after 31 days of 20 minutes of cleaning each day that our home is perfect and never needs to be cleaned, tidied, or scrubbed again. I’m sure you’d love to say the same about your home too, right?

But instead, let’s go back to my original goals of what I hoped to accomplish over this month from Day Two

1. I hope the house is cleaner.

2. I hope I start to work out a weekly cleaning schedule and maybe begin working on a monthly one too. I know there are tons and tons of cleaning schedules on <a href=>Pinterest</a>. But I haven’t gotten one to work for me, which is largely lack of motivation…which leads me to…

3. More motivation to clean because it blesses me and it blesses my family and home.

4. I learn how to make my life easier as time goes on like always clearing the table after meals so the dishes are all in the sink when I am ready to run the dishwasher. Or carrying things that belong upstairs actually up the stairs with me when I go up and vice-versa with the downstairs items.

So, my house is cleaner and much easier to clean day by day. Though I haven’t typed out a weekly cleaning schedule I have certainly learned some things that would make creating one easier. I have learned that we need to do a home reset at least once a week.  I have learned that scheduling time for finishing projects is important and prevents me from leaving things hanging permanently. I have learned how much we enjoy clean curtains, fluffy towels, and other cleaning projects that should happen a few times a year (spring and fall cleaning maybe?).

I have learned that 20 minutes a day can really make a difference in the upkeep of our home. This is motivating and also encourages me to use naptime wisely and get at least 20 minutes in if possible even if I nap the rest of the time myself. I’ve also learned that taking a day off or splitting up my cleaning time as needed is totally fine and even healthy. And not procrastinating two-minute tasks is a huge help and win!

I think we are four for four with goals and I hope to keep working on hammering down a cleaning schedule over the next month.

Today in 20 minutes my toddler and I:

  • Vacuumed all the downstairs floors
  • And swiffered everything!

Woo hoo, we’re done with the 31 Days of Being Your Own Maid adventure and so many cleaning projects were tackled! Many items were donated to our local Buy Nothing group. Several bags of trash were collected from around the house and thrown away. Our cleaning supplies were assessed, organized, USEd, and then moved away from the reach of curious toddlers. And right now I can tell you that all of our bathrooms look great (yes, all three), our downstairs is a five-minute pickup from guest ready, our counters are usable (though not empty currently), our stairs are vacuumed, and we have more guests coming tomorrow! It is so wonderful and worthwhile to know that I don’t need to panic for a whole week before guests come now. The nursery needs another 20 minutes and our bedroom is a focus for me for the next few weeks with the Style Cure but we are getting there!

Thank you for following me on the Be Your Own Maid series. I hope you tackled a few deep cleaning projects and feel more satisfied in your home!


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Day 30: Another Home Reset?

Are we crazy or geniuses? We reset our home again as I am hosting another group of friends tomorrow for a simple Halloween get together. Maybe other people’s homes can stay nice in the one day between events but ours doesn’t. Beyond dishes and laundry piling up, all the toys come out, more clothes are put on and removed at random, and even by tonight our entire table display was emptied and shook out by one adorable little boy. Plus, with all this rain our footprints and dog’s footprints are all over the front entry carpet and tile.

So another home reset was on the menu, which will make my life easier tomorrow after my workout and shower and before my friends arrive with their kiddos. Originally I had hoped to get in to work on the nursery today but one kid didn’t nap for hours though he was trying in the nursery and then he finally fell asleep and napped for three hours. So that was five hours I couldn’t be in there and the rest of the day was feedings, cooking, errands, and diapers. And really a home reset was more important because no one sees the nursery but us, and our kids certainly don’t care.

Today’s home reset took just twenty minutes but three of us were involved and we got so much done!

In 10 minutes,

  • My husband and toddler picked up all the toys
  • I cleared the table and reset the table display and table cloth
  • I filled the ice cube trays for tomorrow
  • I gathered all the clothes and started a load of laundry
  • I made a sauce and put it on two pork loins to go into the oven
  • I washed and cut up some grapes for tomorrow
  • My sweet husband emptied and refilled the dishwasher
  • And my husband and son blew up an air mattress so we can all cuddle and watch a movie together

Tomorrow morning will just be a quick bathroom wipe down and vacuum/swiffer mop of the front entry and we should be good to go! Plus, lighting that delicious smelling candy corn candle and the house will be warm and inviting!

We got this great chore chart from our local Buy Nothing Group and it has been fun to use this past week and to keep both our heads and home clear.  Our toddler loved adding his first star tonight after helping with his toys and he really went above and beyond.  How do you share/balance/remind/check in on chores in your household?


Oh goodness, our toddler has already found the DVD and figured out how to put it into the XBOX. Gotta run!

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Day 29: The Fastest Easiest Home Reset Yet

Since I am going to be working on our bedroom for the next few weeks as part of Apartment Therapy’s Style Cure I skipped that item on my weekly plan. Instead we did another home reset for a playdate I was hosting.

Today my husband joined me this morning helping and in 20 minutes we:

  • Got all the dirty laundry into a basket in the bathroom
  • Did the dishes and started the dishwasher
  • Tidied toys
  • Picked up any clothes/coats/shoes lying around
  • Cleared the table and put down a new table cloth under our Halloween decorations
  • Vacuumed
  • And lit our nice candy corn scented candle

It was great! Not down to 10 minutes a day yet but 20 minutes is the equivalent of two days of 10 minutes which would have been the length of time since Monday’s home reset.

We were both pleasantly surprised how quickly our downstairs came together and was crowd friendly and baby-safe/clean. Doing a little bit of work often really does make things easier. Of course I always mentally knew this was true but now this month I have been living it and learning it by heart for my own home.


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Day 28: Our Bedroom and the Style Cure

As I prepared to conquer my bedroom in two days a really good look at the room let me know that it wouldn’t be ship-shape in 48 hours or two 20-minute sessions. And while I’ve had other days where I can clean for hours today was busy and tomorrow is even more so.

So in 20 minutes , I:

  • Woke the baby (which always happens when I clean our room, I need a better system for this asap)
  • Hung up all clean clothes that were waiting for baby to not be sleeping in the closet
  • Tidied some trash
  • Emptied a toy box of everything that wasn’t toys
  • Hung up items that needed it
  • Sent some items downstairs that didn’t belong in our room
  • Found all the dirty laundry and started a new load in the wash
  • And the biggest thing I did the whole time was 20 minutes of thinking about the room and what I want it to look like someday soon. This is great timing because I’ve been getting subscription emails to Apartment Therapy’s Style Cure which is 22 days of working to clean out, design, and decorate one room in your house. So using my 20 minutes of tidying the room already I was able to think through the first three days of activities all at once, even without the field trip for style scouting (since that is sort of an ongoing fun project for me).

Have you ever participated in Apartment Therapy’s Style Cures before?

Also, once again I didn’t snap any great cleaning shots as I was thinking hard, tidying hard, and trying to entertain baby so please enjoy these cute Halloween costumes my kids have been wearing very often this month…

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Day 27: Home Stretch AND Reset

Another home reset and you know what, I don’t dread these at all. I am so aware that the home gets used and used well and needs to be restored quite often, everyday really. I’d love to get where ten minutes a day could keep it tidy on top of deeper, intentional cleaning sessions. Have any of you got it to that point yet?

I’m also making plans for what will come after this series. My first plan is Be An Adult Week, essentially Anti-Procrastination Week! I know that I am a married adult woman with two kids and I do lots of adult things all the time like changing diapers, feeding babies/toddlers, driving around, and paying bills. But there are some things I don’t take care of fast enough or I put off way too long (anyone else a procrastinator?). So November 1st-7th will be my Be An Adult Week. I will be getting the car’s oil changed, printing photos for frames/photobooks/cards for grandparents, I will schedule dentist’s appointments for the three of us that have teeth so far, I will get some items dry cleaned, and sew up some household items that need a bit of work, etc, etc, etc. I have been storing up projects and to-do items in a storage basket over the past few days and will keep doing so over the duration of this 31 days so I will be ready come November 1st.  Do you have projects that need to get done? Would you like to be a part of  my Be An Adult Week?

So back to today, in 20 minutes I:

  • Emptied three more laundry baskets
  • Started a new load of laundry
  • Tidied our master bathroom and counter
  • Quick decluttered out bedroom floor (more work on this over the next two days)
  • Scrubbed two toilets and two sinks
  • Picked up dirty laundry that didn’t make it into hampers in our room

In 20 extra but needed minutes I:

*Quick mopped our tile floors since we vacuumed the entry yesterday (finishing off a bottle of cleaner, time to put the next least-full one from our stockpile into the downstairs cleaning kit bucket!)

*Emptied the dishwasher

*Refilled and started the dishwasher

*Quick decluttering of our kitchen countertops

*Handwashed dirty knives and spatulas


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Day 26: The Last Plan and Rest Day of the Month…

Though I spent yesterday resting instead!

Besides today, there is just five days left in the week and Friday is Halloween, a favorite holiday of mine! This is the final stretch (at least for this month) so if you’ve been following along make sure that your plan for the next five days at least finishes up the unfinished jobs you have started. My house may not be perfectly spotless by day 31 (and really, it won’t be with two kids under two, two dogs, and two busy adults) but it sure looks better than we started. And we still have five more days to work hard as well as continue establishing the habit of 20 minutes of extra cleaning/chores a day.

Monday: Home reset

Tuesday: Time again in our bedroom

Wednesday: Time again in our bedroom

Thursday: Back in the kitchen, hopefully one last time

Friday: And vacuum all the floors and swiffer mop those that can be swiffered!

Though my house is looking better and I am feeling more in control of it I still had a moment today that felt like Point-House, Zero Points-Jennifer.  I wanted to clean our couch, la-z-y boy, and dining room chairs yesterday and thus today since I rested. I clean these microfiber covered furniture with ethanol in a spray bottle, a sponge, and a scrub brush. But I couldn’t find my spray bottle of ethanol…even after making my cleaning kits and finding the cleaners all over the house. I know it still is in the house somewhere, but I haven’t seen it and can’t find it now. Argh. Drives me nuts. But at least we are finding more items that we’re searching for than we used to and more items are finding forever homes, at least as long as this home is ours.

So since today wasn’t a rest day, in 20 minutes I:

  • Started a load of laundry
  • Cleared out the front entry area: mostly hanging coats, gathering shoes, a bit of trash collecting
  • Vacuumed the stairs and front landing and entryway
  • Put some kitchen items we are selling today in the clean entryway
  • Carried up things that belong upstairs and carried down things that belong downstairs

And during the 20 minutes, my sweet husband:

  • Started a load of dishes
  • Took out the garbage
  • Tidied the living room of toys
  • Sorted through random paperwork and mail from the week that we hadn’t got to already

I love when he is available to get in on the 20 minutes because we get twice as much done. Our downstairs looks pretty great right now!

Tidy Toy Shelf

Tidy Toy Shelf

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Day 25: A Rest Day Early

I am trading tomorrow’s planned rest day for today. We did dishes and laundry and the normal lots of diapers, lots of nursing thing today. But besides a beautiful wedding, not much else. Tomorrow has more free time so I will take today’s tasks and some things I need to wrap up and work on them tomorrow. But today I simply enjoyed my family and tonight I am going to take the first evening in days to just rest with my husband. Till tomorrow then friends, and please enjoy this sweet and rare photo of our family with two boys under two.


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Day 24: Miscellaneous Deep Cleaning

Today is a random mix of miscellaneous deep cleaning, but sometimes housework is that way. Speaking of random, my husband did another home rest for us on Wednesday just two days after the last one but we needed it. Counters clutter so quickly, toys get strewn about, dogs shed hair everywhere, baby spits up, laundry piles up…housework lasts forever.

I had to break up my cleaning times and I definitely didn’t get everything I wanted done with off kilter baby naps, a busy morning, a family visit, and heading out this evening to celebrate my sister’s birthday. I didn’t get to clean my washing machine because it was in use all day or to cleaning behind my kitchen appliances. But I did wipe under the oven and fridge and then bleach wiped the other edges of the kitchen where the stickiest/dustiest spots lie. I did attack major mildew spots around the house, Seattle is wet and mildewy (especially in the fall and winter).  And I did a ton of laundry to get caught up after a few other busy days.

The best cleaning list in my new opinion is a flexible list. It’s good to make weekly plans of what you’ll be tackling but you need to give yourself grace and room to clean more or less as life allows.

As I have been decluttering and cleaning through the house I have been coming up with other projects that need tackling around here; some decorative, some fixing, some purchases that need to be made (new fire extinguishers is one example), etc.

So tell me, how do you keep track of all the things you need to do to be an adult?  I am really interested in creating a command center though it may need to wait until next month but don’t want to invest time and money if that system doesn’t actually work for us. What works for you?

And since I didn’t take any nice photos of my cleaning projects today, please enjoy this one of little baby’s super blue eyes!


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Day 23: Toothbrushes and Tiles

A friend was seven months pregnant right before I found myself pregnant with our firstborn. So I tracked the end of her pregnancy closely because I was all awash in pregnancy hormones, hopes, and dreams. Amidst nesting and an excitement to meet her baby in person, she cleaned her whole house and one of her tricks was how to clean bathroom tile better than any other way. Her advice, mixing dish soap and vinegar and using a toothbrush. Seven months after the birth of her baby, I found myself in the tub scrubbing my tiles and grout with a toothbrush dipped in dish soap and vinegar and it worked beautifully.  Then I had that baby, 21 months passed, and even another little boy joined our family.

Today was definitely a good time to clean the bathroom tile grout again. And I pulled out my trusty cleaning toothbrush, some dish soap I needed to use up, and my big bottle of vinegar (seriously, the cheapest cleaning agent) and got to work with a podcast blaring!

I scrub vertically and then horizontally and then I use a washcloth with just dish soap to wipe all the tiles and get rid of any last marks before spraying each shower wall down.





I also washed our window treatments today though I had to run to the store first to get non-chlorine bleach (which isn’t marketed as non-chlorine bleach at all!).  Things are looking better and brighter around here!

What did you do today?

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