Day 25: A Rest Day Early

I am trading tomorrow’s planned rest day for today. We did dishes and laundry and the normal lots of diapers, lots of nursing thing today. But besides a beautiful wedding, not much else. Tomorrow has more free time so I will take today’s tasks and some things I need to wrap up and work on them tomorrow. But today I simply enjoyed my family and tonight I am going to take the first evening in days to just rest with my husband. Till tomorrow then friends, and please enjoy this sweet and rare photo of our family with two boys under two.


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Day 24: Miscellaneous Deep Cleaning

Today is a random mix of miscellaneous deep cleaning, but sometimes housework is that way. Speaking of random, my husband did another home rest for us on Wednesday just two days after the last one but we needed it. Counters clutter so quickly, toys get strewn about, dogs shed hair everywhere, baby spits up, laundry piles up…housework lasts forever.

I had to break up my cleaning times and I definitely didn’t get everything I wanted done with off kilter baby naps, a busy morning, a family visit, and heading out this evening to celebrate my sister’s birthday. I didn’t get to clean my washing machine because it was in use all day or to cleaning behind my kitchen appliances. But I did wipe under the oven and fridge and then bleach wiped the other edges of the kitchen where the stickiest/dustiest spots lie. I did attack major mildew spots around the house, Seattle is wet and mildewy (especially in the fall and winter).  And I did a ton of laundry to get caught up after a few other busy days.

The best cleaning list in my new opinion is a flexible list. It’s good to make weekly plans of what you’ll be tackling but you need to give yourself grace and room to clean more or less as life allows.

As I have been decluttering and cleaning through the house I have been coming up with other projects that need tackling around here; some decorative, some fixing, some purchases that need to be made (new fire extinguishers is one example), etc.

So tell me, how do you keep track of all the things you need to do to be an adult?  I am really interested in creating a command center though it may need to wait until next month but don’t want to invest time and money if that system doesn’t actually work for us. What works for you?

And since I didn’t take any nice photos of my cleaning projects today, please enjoy this one of little baby’s super blue eyes!


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Day 23: Toothbrushes and Tiles

A friend was seven months pregnant right before I found myself pregnant with our firstborn. So I tracked the end of her pregnancy closely because I was all awash in pregnancy hormones, hopes, and dreams. Amidst nesting and an excitement to meet her baby in person, she cleaned her whole house and one of her tricks was how to clean bathroom tile better than any other way. Her advice, mixing dish soap and vinegar and using a toothbrush. Seven months after the birth of her baby, I found myself in the tub scrubbing my tiles and grout with a toothbrush dipped in dish soap and vinegar and it worked beautifully.  Then I had that baby, 21 months passed, and even another little boy joined our family.

Today was definitely a good time to clean the bathroom tile grout again. And I pulled out my trusty cleaning toothbrush, some dish soap I needed to use up, and my big bottle of vinegar (seriously, the cheapest cleaning agent) and got to work with a podcast blaring!

I scrub vertically and then horizontally and then I use a washcloth with just dish soap to wipe all the tiles and get rid of any last marks before spraying each shower wall down.





I also washed our window treatments today though I had to run to the store first to get non-chlorine bleach (which isn’t marketed as non-chlorine bleach at all!).  Things are looking better and brighter around here!

What did you do today?

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Day 22: Towels & Kitchen Declutter

Today was a good day, though our toddler hasn’t napped all day and his little brother is taking fitful naps here and there.

I wanted to try out the famous towel refresher tip that is always floating around Pinterest. I was happy to find this review that said it worked well, it was encouraging! Obviously washing each load of towels (we have about two total) twice and then drying them takes over 20 minutes but while they started I got to other tasks for the day.

While the boys were having a happy moment I started going through kitchen cupboards and drawers and pulling out items we no longer want/need or never used.

We have a whole bunch of dishes that weren’t working for us anymore now we have kids to sell. Then I was able to post two cookie sheets, three muffin pans, one bundt pan, one springform pan, a bunch of baby/toddler utensils, a pizza cutter, a wine stopper, a whisk, a pastry cutter, and more (all of which were duplicates) on our local Buy Nothing group.


It is nice to pass on items that we don’t want to take with us when we move someday and especially to know they will go to homes where they will be loved and used more than they were here.

Part of my declutter was unloading the entire silverware drawer, wipe it out, and only put back what we want to keep. That is always a nice feeling because it certainly gets packed with too much and plenty of crumbs.

One last cleaning activity, emptying the dishwasher and putting a measuring cup full of vinegar on the top and running it again by itself to clean the actual dishwasher. Our dishwasher is stainless steel so it doesn’t get stained like some can but it does get grimy. So I used this great link to clean my own dishwasher really easily!

20 minutes and lots of items decluttered and on my way to refreshed/softer towels and a super clean ready-to-clean-dishes-again dishwasher! Easy peasy!

What did you do in your 20 minutes today?

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Day 21: Starting Some Fall Cleaning

I’ve always like the concept of spring and fall cleaning but never been great at it. As I’ve said before I love to research the best ways to clean and make lots of lists of what to do clean but I’m not great on the follow-through. So in my imagination, a maid would be really helpful for fall and spring cleaning since I never make the time for it in the first place.

So today was about tackling some much needed tasks that should be done every once in a while but often aren’t in our house. Today I cleaned all the door knobs and light switches around the house. I used one of my nearly empty cleaning items from one of my cleaning kits and went around with just a washcloth-easy peasy but not done often enough!

And then I went to work on our bookcases.

So in 20 minutes, I:

  • Used a washcloth doused with cleaner to wipe down all of our light switches and door knobs in the house-quick but needed in germ and grime season
  • Replaced all the books in our bookshelves that our toddler had pulled out recently while playing in our room
  • Sorted a few categories of books but didn’t go crazy with my organizing since I wanted to keep to under 20 minutes today
  • Removed garbage on the bookshelves, I hadn’t even noticed my dear husband had left receipts and change up there
  • Filled a box with items to be brought downstairs or donated
  • Pulled out some fall-themed books to read with our toddler
  • Dusted the shelves
I love this picture, phone snap for the win!

I love this picture, phone snap for the win!

Also, just ten more days left in October and this experiment! I am already starting to formulate what all I can tackle and finish in those ten days as well as where I’d like to go next with learning to love our home more (as long as it is ours).

And now I get to rest and read my new cookbook before adding it to our shelves. Fall weather, dusted bookshelves, reading seems like the perfect resting activity!

Are you thinking about what you will take or carry with you after the 31 days are up?

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Day 20: Home Reset and Finishing Projects

I am enjoying using Mondays for home resets and I am starting to realize why FlyLady has Home Blessing Hours on Mondays. It really is nice to sort of tidy up after busy weekends. It does seem to take more than 20 minutes but that works out for me because I like to stay closer to home on Mondays since we have very active weekends. Last weekend for example included a babysitter and Friday night date, a pumpkin patch adventure Saturday, and a baby dedication and brunch with family on Sunday!

On top of a home reset, which isn’t perfect but things feel tidier I also worked on some unfinished projects I either started last week or didn’t have time to get to already.

Today in 20 minutes, I:

  • Emptied the dryer
  • Took up two full baskets of laundry and one with other items that belonged upstairs
  • Put away some paperwork from the other hall closet that has been on the kitchen table too long now
  • Organized the shoe closet
  • Added random cold weather gear from around the house to the shoe closet
  • Vacuumed the floor and shelves of the shoe closet since it is right next to our front door it gets really dusty in there.
  • Pulled out some shoes to sell/donate  Shoes

I kept going about 35 more minutes and:

*Emptied the two full laundry baskets, plus one more already in our room

*Put away all the items that belonged upstairs

*Put away littlest baby clothes that no longer fit

*Created a bag of items to donate to a mom due with a baby soon

*Created a bag of baby clothes that don’t fit to pass onto friends

*Sorted ALL the socks-this takes so long for four of us now (any tips to speed it up or how long to keep unmatched socks???)

The house looks and feels better. I  may light my nice smelling candle and read the Joy the Baker‘s new cookbook that arrived in the mail today…Homemade Decadence. No, I can’t eat any of this currently on my diet but one day, one day!

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Day 19: Sunday is a Day to Plan and Rest

Ah, another beloved restful Sunday.

My plan for the week ahead since many of our rooms are decluttered and cleaned is to hit a few more hot spots and to do fall cleaning work that isn’t required often and many people (myself usually included) skip unless they have a maid to think of it.

Monday- Home reset and unfinished projects like shoe closet, nursery closet, paperwork, etc

Tuesday- Tidying bookshelves and cleaning light switches and door handles around the house

Wednesday- Refresh our towels, clean the dishwasher, and clean out our silverware tray, kitchen declutter

Thursday- Clean our window treatments and super scrub grout in our two showers

Friday- Clean out the washing machine, clean under/behind fridge & oven, vacuum stairs, tackle Seattle mildew

Saturday- Clean living room and dining room furniture

Sunday-Rest and Plan

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